SHANNON’S OWN EXPERIENCE
One of the things I love about my job is the different people you encounter, and that no two people or appointments are the same.
With my background in Sports Therapy, I am finding myself working with different demographics like postnatal mums, older adults, ice hockey players and clients on a Cancer journey.
I want to tell you a little about my own and my clients on Cancer journeys.
When I was studying for my qualifications and we started on the Cancer module, I never would have imagined the impact it could have on my life. We learned Cancer happens to 1 in 3 people, and sitting in that classroom, that was an accurate picture.
Fast forward a few years, and that statistic is now 1 in 2. At the time, I did not even entertain the idea that I could be part of that statistic. I just wanted to be able to help however I could.
That class ended up being one of my greatest comforts.
We learned that Cancer is no longer a death sentence to everyone who hears the word. Learning about different types, stages, and progressions armed me with a broad knowledge of terminology that would have been overwhelming hearing it for the first time as a patient.
I was able to regroup and take stock of what was being said more easily. Once I wrapped my head around what needed to be done, I just wanted to get on with it.
Honestly, it is probably harder on the loved ones. Is there any right way to respond to hearing someone say they have Cancer? I have experienced the devastation in people’s eyes when they have had a negative experience, and I saw resolve in others that this is a part of life, but you will get through this.
One of the hardest bits was when the Doctors first start throwing around the word Cancer and you have no idea how bad it is or what the treatment is, everything is a waiting game. You take solace in what you know, so being armed with the knowledge from my course, I had a nightlight in the dark.
Going through a Cancer journey myself, hearing my dad and my sister say “I have Cancer” has made me determined to be a better trainer. To offer kindness, understanding, and a holistic approach to sessions with clients with Cancer.
The exercise I did post-treatment and the support I received from people in my corner are what saw me through some dark times.
I feel stronger now than I did before diagnosis, and I want others to feel like they can have that too.
I want to be a night light in other people’s journeys.
Over the last few years, I have had clients with various cancer diagnoses, different treatments and different prognoses.
A few have been terminal. If I am honest, one of the hardest things is not knowing the outcome; you can only hope that what you had to offer someone before it got too bad was enough to bring a little bit of joy.
Working with clients that have Cancer has been rewarding and healing in its own right. It has forced me to reflect on my own experience in a unique way.
I have been inspired by the strength on display (physical and mental), motivated by the way they push forward each week, and committed to making the most of each session.
A metaphor I like to use is a fuel tank. Everyone has one. Some days that tank is full, and sometimes it is only half full.
When people walk through the door, I want them to give me 100% of what is in their tank. It is my job to recognise how much fuel is in their tank and give them sessions that match what they have to give.
Sometimes after a treatment, when the tank is at 50%, we do some movement therapy (Pilates/stretching/massage). Other days it is nice to feel strong and it is recognising that at that time they can be pushed, not to a standard of an average client but to their standards.
My unique experiences have allowed me to be able to read most people. I find so much joy in helping people realise they can have a semblance of control of their own bodies again, whether it be feeling strong enough to kick some ass, moving in the midst of fatigue during treatment, or listening to the body’s need to rest through massage.
Learning to adapt to a client’s needs has made me a better therapist. Listening to a client’s stories and experiences has offered me healing in regard to my own journey. Being able to share my own journey has allowed me to connect with clients in a way where I hope I can provide empowerment. I am determined to be a positive experience for people dealing with Cancer.
My clients are brilliant, and each one has brought their light to the path; no matter if it’s a flicker or burning brightly, everyone has light to give, and together we can light the way for others to come.
Shannon x